パリ在住の日本人シェフ関根拓氏、性的暴行疑惑をかけられ自殺

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発端の告発

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bonnyclea
This morning I cried. I cried because I am letting go of a chapter in my life where I allowed myself to be powerless. Wherein I normalized abuse and accepted that that was what I deserved. So many beautiful things have come into my life recently that promise a bright future for me, but I need to be in a place where I am comfortable with my past.

I haven’t named the person who abused me as I am scared of being sued for defamation. He is far more prestigious than I, but I hope people can piece it together.

Thank you to those who have supported me in sharing this 🤍

Atabulaが関根拓の名前を出した記事

関根拓の自殺に対する告発者の投稿

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bonnyclea
I believe there is a karmic scale. When good things happen, they are supplemented with bad things to balance them out. I have been feeling happy lately, and I recognized that it feels unsafe for me to feel joy. This learned belief that I will be punished for being treated well and loved. This is a learnt belief of a child that has been abused. I am trying to be gentle with myself in light of recent events.

Last night I was told by a friend that the man who sexually assaulted me, killed himself. I was left in a state of shock, which is the only way I can describe it. I couldn’t feel my body, I was desensitized to my surroundings. I felt like I was going to faint. What strange irony it was, to know that all those months I spent feeling suicidal, the person who hurt me would choose to take his own life.

I don’t take this situation lightly. I feel pain for his wife, his son, his family and friends. I also feel anger that I can feel such deep empathy for the person who not only hurt me, but numerous women. I know this because they each reached out to me personally after I shared my story.

From the portion of people who have reached out to me and said it was my fault, that my false accusations caused this, that I should have gone to the police:

1. Police do not protect womxn.
2. The justice system does not protect womxn.
3. I do not believe in punitive justice, which is what colonial society is built on.

I wish he felt like he could reach out for help when he needed it. The reality that he hurt so many women is a display that he was hurt and traumatized himself. Hurt people hurt people. I cannot relate to the difficulty of facing this based on Japanese culture because I don’t know enough about it. Also, why must I, the victim of his assault, debate this?

I believe in transformative justice. That those who have hurt and harmed others should receive the help they need. They then can help others who struggle with similar issues.

I can’t respond to all the messages but I appreciate everyone who is supportive to me during this time. It is heavy.

Believe womxn.

関根拓死後のAtabulaのコメント

上記記事をグーグル翻訳に突っ込んだ中身から一部抜粋

Voilà bien la preuve factuel qu’Atabula n’a rien « dévoilé » du tout ; le média n’a fait que son travail d’enquête et publié le nom d’un chef déjà catalogué et évincé par d’autres.

Quant à l’argumentation qui consiste à dire que ce n’est pas à la presse de sortir des noms, mais à la justice de décider de la culpabilité des uns ou des autres, elle ne repose sur aucun fondement. Bien au contraire. C’est, d’une part, méconnaitre le fonctionnement historique de ces deux « pouvoirs » qui se nourrissent mutuellement depuis que l’un et l’autre existent.

これは、Atabulaが何も「開示」しなかったという事実の証拠です。メディアは調査作業を行い、他の人によってすでにカタログ化されて追放されたリーダーの名前を公開しただけでした。

マスコミが名前を思いつくのではなく、裁判所がどちらかの罪を決定するという議論は、まったく根拠がありません。まったく逆です。一方では、一方と他方が存在するため、互いに栄養を与えるこれら2つの「力」の歴史的な機能を無視することです。